Our Love Never Paused

When Love Found Us 💖

We met in a way that felt meant to be, unexpected but beautiful. Just crossing paths at the right time, in a world that wasn’t always kind, but somehow gave us each other. What made our love strong was more than romance. It was honesty, loyalty, and an unshakable friendship. We laughed, we planned, and we made each other feel seen. That bond? It’s still what holds us together, even now.

She’s been by his side for years. Then came the moment everything changed. When she found out he was going away.

The day I heard, it felt like the air left my lungs. Everything stopped. I didn’t want to believe it. I held on to hope that somehow, things would be different. But when the reality sank in, I was overwhelmed with heartbreak, fear, sadness all at once. I cried. I prayed. I sat in silence trying to understand what was happening. But deep down, I knew this wasn’t the end. It was just a storm we had to survive, together. And ever since, I’ve been holding him down the best way I know how.

What keeps me strong? Faith, love, and purpose. Some days are harder than others, but I remind myself why I’m doing this. Because he’s worth it. Because we have something real. Because this isn’t forever.

I journal, I pray, I protect my peace. I stay away from negativity. And us? We keep each other going. Letters, phone calls, words of encouragement. They mean everything. We talk about our dreams and goals like we always did. Our situation doesn’t define us. Our love does.

Have you faced any judgement or stigma from friends or family? 

Yes, there’s been judgment from friends, family, strangers. Some people don’t understand. They stare, they question, they whisper. And at first, it hurt. But I’ve learned not to seek validation from people who’ve never lived my life. They don’t know the strength, the depth, the bond we’ve built.

I stand firm in my truth. Love, loyalty, and growth don’t always look traditional and that’s okay. I stay prayed up and surrounded by people who lift me, not break me.

What is some advice you would give to someone just starting this journey? 

To anyone just beginning this journey: know that your love is real. Don’t let anyone make you feel less than. Yes, it’s hard. But it’s also powerful. Set boundaries. Care for your own mental health. Find community you’re not alone. Be prepared for change and hold space for both of you to grow.

Celebrate every small moment. A visit, a letter, a phone call. Those little things? They’re everything.

Through heartbreak and hope, she’s learned that love like this doesn’t fade. It adapts. It survives. It remains locked in, no matter the distance.